Archway Care Ltd

Children of prospective foster carers are also part of the fostering process. Welcoming children in to your family can be a daunting prospect for all family members especially forchildren. To help allay fears, here are some of the most frequently asked questions birth children have.

What will it be like sharing my home with another child I don't know?

Living with other people can be very different to living with your family as we are all individuals. We all act differently and it can take time to get to know someone and become more relaxed with their company. Birth children often become very good friends with foster children and appreciate having someone to play with.

Will mum and dad be too busy to share time with me?

We always encourage parents to put aside time for their birth children to ensure that they do not feel left out by new children coming to live in the family home. We want at least one parent to be at home full-time, as this will ensure that either mum or dad is around most of the time.

Will I have to share my bedroom with foster children?

You will not have to share your bedroom with a foster child as they are expected to have their own bedroom.

Will my toys and belongings be stolen by foster children?

Some foster children, like other children, have been brought up not knowing it is wrong to take other peoples things that don't belong to them. Foster children should ask your permission before using or playing with your personal belongings. You must also respect their belongings.

Who do I go to if a foster child is not nice to me?

If any foster children are unkind to you, you must tell your mum and dad immediately to make sure the problem is sorted out.

Will I have to talk to lots of different social workers?

From time to time you will have to speak with social workers, but this will not be often, as it is important for them to know you are happy. This will also be an opportunity for you to ask any questions you may have as well.